I am so glad you have stopped by on my page today. You must be looking for ways to help you stand out and be unique in life and that tells me something important. It tells me you want to express your true nature and gladly show up the way you want and feel good about it.

This is Part 2 of the article HOW TO S.T.A.N.D O.U.T I.N.LIFE so if you missed Part 1, make sure you check it out because I already shared 5 tips to show you out to stand out using the acronym S.T.A.N.D. Now we are moving to the tips outlined by O.U.T.


It's okay to not fit in and blend into the crowd.


When you are confident in who you are, you are not afraid of others and you do not see them as competitors. Rather, you see them as collaborators where your synergy will build each other instead of distract from your greatness. I love supporting other people’s dreams and it makes me happy to see others succeeding even if we are in the same industry. I have learnt to keep jealousy at bay by constantly telling myself how great I am at what I do and I should own my own greatness and keep shining always. Collaboration is the new gold and it will take you further faster than you can imagine in life if you tried to go the distance alone. 



Your why will always set you apart and make you unique because it is what drives you to do what you do. Your why is the fuel that energizes you to get up and put in the work daily. Your why is what makes you make certain decisions and give your time and energy to a cause you believe in. My why and your why cannot be the same. Without your why, you will find it difficult to stay the course when things get tough. My why has allowed me to stay true to my authentic voice, style and mission. Without it, I wouldn’t have been as focused as I am and consistent with what I do. Your why allows you to be consistent and that makes you stand out from those who have not built their credibility and consistency in life. Know your why and live your why.


Self love and affirmations will help you to keep reminding yourself how phenomenal you are and that you deserve to succeed and be rewarded with all the good things of life. You must always build up your confidence and self esteem because there are many negative forces out there that will try to make you doubt yourself and retreat into a shell. Don’t let that happen to you. Stand your ground. Win the battle or ruling your mind so that you can rule your world. A King or Queen knows his/her power and owns it. Own your greatness. Speak life into yourself and let your life be one you can be proud of. Your life is a blockbuster movie waiting to be released and a bestseller waiting to be read by countless number of people. Create one for the legend books.

What do you do next after reading all the tips on how to S.T.A.N.D O.U.T?

It’s time to take action on what you just read. To live a phenomenal life, you can’t be timid. Own your greatness and S.T.A.N.D O.U.T. Don’t let anyone or anything discourage or make you feel there is something wrong with you because you do not want to toe the normal line or do things they way everyone else around you does.
Give yourself permission to be who you want to be and dazzle in your authentic God colours. If not for the dreamers and innovators like Walt Disney, Steve Jobs, Serena & Venus Williams, Elon Musk, Sir Richard Branson,  and many other notable people who dared to be different and follow their guts and their passion, the world will not be as colourful and as creative as it is today.
Let me know if you have other tips for standing out in life and share your thoughts with me.
Till next time, I remain phenomenally ME.


XoXo from Madame Merola,
The B.A.N.G Creator 

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